I think i am dating a narcissist

09-Sep-2016 00:11

We can have great conversations about anything, but when it comes to anything involving his deepest feelings or our relationship, he shuts down and no matter what, blames any problems on me.

I have only heard the guy say he was sorry for something one time in our relationship.

Do you have to wait until your relationship sours to find out? Spotting the signs early means being able to avoid getting entangled in a narcissist’s web, and could spare you from doing the challenging, messy work of digging yourself out later.My family is rife with narcissists, so I grew up thinking selfish behavior was normal. Worse, when feelings are explained to him, he doesn’t care. Understandably, this opens a Pandora’s Box of problems within relationships.To this day (despite years of therapy) I display a high tolerance for self-centered people. Some narcissists can’t pay attention to what others are saying. If I had anything to say to him, I always had to be careful there were no electronic distractions, such as T. I had the best luck with keeping my statements succinct.I have left him twice, once when I found out he had a profile on an adult chatroom site, and once when I saw that he had emailed his ex-girlfriend whom he hadn't spoken to in 10 years.I refused to put up with these things, but he always charmed me to come back, with excuses that kind of made sense.

Do you have to wait until your relationship sours to find out? Spotting the signs early means being able to avoid getting entangled in a narcissist’s web, and could spare you from doing the challenging, messy work of digging yourself out later.My family is rife with narcissists, so I grew up thinking selfish behavior was normal. Worse, when feelings are explained to him, he doesn’t care. Understandably, this opens a Pandora’s Box of problems within relationships.To this day (despite years of therapy) I display a high tolerance for self-centered people. Some narcissists can’t pay attention to what others are saying. If I had anything to say to him, I always had to be careful there were no electronic distractions, such as T. I had the best luck with keeping my statements succinct.I have left him twice, once when I found out he had a profile on an adult chatroom site, and once when I saw that he had emailed his ex-girlfriend whom he hadn't spoken to in 10 years.I refused to put up with these things, but he always charmed me to come back, with excuses that kind of made sense.Some cases are so severe that the person becomes disconnected from reality and fails to maintain mutually beneficial relationships with other people.